Joespeedy, 69

rnAbout me,
I live in Lowestoft, England's most Easterly town, I have a lovely home and am financially very well off. But happiness is really what counts, and I need the company of an affectionate lady to make my home a happy lively place. I have a very nice restaurant and wine bar which is managed for me. I prefer to work in other things, I teach in the local college; special needs children, first aid and health and safety. I also occasionally work strange hours assessing standby vessel crews for the oil industry. In the Summer when the college is closed I work as a lifeguard on the beach, I also run the beach lifeguard service. I still play football on Friday nights, see my children whenever, but other than that I am on my own. My relationship with my partner broke down 23 months ago. After 19 years, there was no love, S-- or affection left. I tried hard to make things work but European women seem to lose interest in their partners after they have children and have a home, however I am not trying to apportion blame. We never got married and my ex partner now lives with the two youngest children the eldest daughter lives with her fiance.
I can either retire or, as I modular teach, work when I want so am able to go on holiday most anytime. I have some nice friends in Southern Spain and can stay with them when I like. You would be more than welcome to visit too. I am possibly looking to buy or rent property there or in some other hot country.
I am very much a pleaser, I like to make people happy. I enjoy most things and am content as long as my partner is happy. It is so very important to keep CARING for each other, kisses and cuddles, holding hands and whispering sweet nothings, SHOULD NEVER STOP. I think the word that sums that all up is affection.